The most common word I am likely to ever utter is: uhm.
Maybe it’s a sound and not a word.
But I speak it often enough it should be a word.
And if it’s a word the definitions are never ending.
Uhm…..I don’t know what to say.
Uhm…..I don’t know how to say it.
Uhm….I’m really uncomfortable with what I want to say.
Uhm….I can’t think of anything to say.
Uhm….I wish I didn’t have to say this.
Uhm….I’m so overcome with emotion/gratitude/devastation I can’t speak my words.
Uhm….I have no words to say what it is I am feeling/experiencing.
Uhm…I have too many words swirling around I can’t put them in a coherent order.
Uhm….There is so much to say that I need to deep breathe.
Uhm….I need you to help me say what I have to say.