The most common  word I am likely to  ever utter is:   uhm.

Maybe it’s a sound and not a word.

But I speak it often enough it should be a word.

And if it’s a word the definitions are never ending.

Uhm…..I don’t know what to say.

Uhm…..I don’t know how to say it.

Uhm….I’m really uncomfortable with what I want to say.

Uhm….I can’t think of anything to say.

Uhm….I wish I didn’t have to say this.

Uhm….I’m so overcome with emotion/gratitude/devastation  I can’t speak my words.

Uhm….I have no words to say what it is I am feeling/experiencing.

Uhm…I have too many words swirling around I can’t put them in a coherent order.

Uhm….There is so much to say that I need to deep breathe.

Uhm….I need you to help me say what I have to say.