From a project I’m working on. And learning from.
I do not subscribe to ‘me first always’. I think that can be destructive in so many ways, including to ‘me’. But. I think finding peace and appreciating peace, is something of value. And ‘me first sometimes’ is okay.
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I agree completely my wise friend. We deserve to have happiness without guilt!
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I don’t agree with the ‘me first and always first’ thinkology. But, I did read something the other day that got through to me. That ‘we’ do not have to feel guilty about finding peace in the joys that we do have.
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I think what happens to a lot of very sensitive people is that we put everyone’s needs above our own needs. It takes some age I think to finally realize that we really don’t have to do that anymore we have a right to exist and to be happy in our own little corner of the world wherever we are, thank goodness for wonderful principles. Love Joni
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He was a gem. 🙂
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It is mostly “self care” & “self love” and it is most unconditional type of love because it’s never half-half.
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Lovely point Mariya!
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❤
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it took me a long time to do this and I’m still working on it but much better about it
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I agree. I don’t ever want to think I am above all else. But I do need to remember that I matter “also”.
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Sign me up for sometimes, MBC.
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You’re signed up!
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Yes, agree. Compassion for others should include compassion for self. ❤️
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Amen Paulette.
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I think this is so true, Colleen. We need to take care of ourselves to be that blessing to others. ❤️
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Put your air mask on first 🙂
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